CEO, Strategic Assistants, and their day! – Part 2

Read for story (Part 1): https://kaythedavid.wordpress.com/2014/09/17/ceo-strategic-assistants-and-their-day/

So, what does this story actually relate to? May not be the best example, but it gets you thinking.

Let’s give the CEO, and his two Strategic Assistants a real role now:

CEO = God, Strategic Assistants = People

Now let’s see how this goes:

Our God calls unto us to make a decision about our life that would obviously have an impact on us. He lets YOU make choices; which is known as Free Will, it’s promised in the Bible. Knowing that God our Father does have the ultimate say in our lives. He knows what you truly need instead of what you temporarily want. He asks you for your ‘remarkable input’ which is a Prayer.

In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps. – Proverbs 16:9

In the framework of our little story, we see two strategic assistants; which implies that there are two people influencing the decision-making process.

Now relating that to real-life:

Senior Strategic Assistants = Christian Couple

Say, a Christian couple have to make a decision that would impact their lives. They have their feet firmly planted in God. They both think they know what’s best. They both have a difference of opinion. This leads them towards a disagreement. Further leading towards a tenacious argument. The wife’s in tears, the husband’s voice somehow keeps getting louder, the wife tries to lower his voice levels and holds onto his arms. The husband now thinks his wife’s getting aggressive, and decides to push her from him.

God’s watching them, but ‘holds Himself back‘ . He lets them take steps according to what they think they should do – FREE WILL. Also, because they’re both adults, they know how to handle themselves.

When the couple reach a point where they know they’ve had enough. They walk away from each other. They go to separate rooms, and contemplate on what just happened.

The wife starts to question God – Why would you do this to me? Where have I gone wrong? Are you not a God of your word? This is UNFAIR! I don’t believe in you anymore. This has happened too many times to us. Why God, why?

The husband on the other hand is completely blank. He can’t think straight. He just wants to distract himself. But for how long?
He then ponders upon his faith in Christ. He starts to doubt it. How can a God so strong, allow them to be weak? The three steps he took in coming closer to God, has now made him take seven steps away from Christ.

The couple then decide to come out, and speak to each other. The questions that were on their minds individually, had now become something they spoke out loud to each other. Both clashed on the same thing – Why would God do this to us if He loves us? But the question they should be asking is – Why would we do this to each other when we love each other?

Slowly, their “Firm Faith in Christ” turns into an uncertain belief. They walk away from God, blaming Him for all what went wrong, and leaving behind all the good things He has done for them.

…“Why are you angry, and why has your face fallen? If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door. Its desire is for you, but you must rule over it.” – Genesis 4:6-7

This is the problem with not only Christians, but people as a whole – They tend to give up if one goes wrong, neglecting a hundred that went right.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. – Proverbs 3:5-6

“For I know the plans I have for you”, declares the Lord, “plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” – Jeremiah 29:11

“What no eye has seen,
What no ear has heard,
and what no human mind has conceived”
the things God has prepared for those who love him 1 Corinthians 2:9 

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Emotions – what to do when you don’t know what to do!

There are certain characteristics that make you up as a person. Those traits might scare some away from you or some might feel comfortable around you because they’re just “like” you. But for a fact, no one can be just like you or feel what you feel or even worse when you’re in a pickle, and they say that they understand you. Gosh! That annoys me. No you DON’T understand what I’m going through. No one does. Every person has their own reaction patterns. You can’t influence someone’s reaction unless you’re the cause of it. Ha!

Let me get straight to the point. I don’t even know what I’m trying to say here but let me have a go!

Do what you say, and say what you feel 
By which I mean, let your actions be greater than your words and your words be as subtle as those beautiful emotions you feel (No! Don’t go punch someone instead of swearing at them, that’s NOT what I want you to aim for). If you say “Wow I love him/her I think I’m going to take him/her out to express how much I love him/her”, but what’s the point of being so overwhelmed with love when all that’s happening is a lot of talking and less of doing. So instead of saying you’re going to do something in the near future, just do it now (or if it’s a birthday surprise then do it according to plan). It would be worse if you said you would do so, but didn’t!

Let every thing you do be accompanied with love, and every joy guided by humility
A friend of mine told me that her ‘better half’ moaned and groaned throughout by saying how great he is when he does all these little ‘romantic’ things for her, and how she didn’t have the flair of doing so! I mean come on, who would want to do something for you when all what you’re doing is boasting about what you’re doing. (Get your senses on track man!)
I know its a bit too traditional for a guy to make the first move or the first attempt in pleasing the girl or the first step towards buying stuff for her and all but I don’t see what’s wrong in that unless the girl is taking your goodness for granted (then boy, run away!)

Don’t tell them you understand, just be there for them
Again, I’m stressing on this – Don’t tell them that you understand. That’s the last thing you should say! Rather than telling them you understand what they’re going through, try and accommodate the emotions that they are going through. That is if you really want to ‘understand’ them. Emotions are not easy to deal with, just let it be. If your loved one is going through a hard time then cuddle up, make them some food (even if it means taking some pre-cooked frozen food and shoving it in the oven), make them laugh, make the effort of doing what you would want someone else to do for you when you are facing dark times. (<– I don’t even get that. Read it again!) So when the time comes; that you are in a difficult position, they would remember all what you did to bring a smile on their faces, and now would have the audacity to do the same for you. Simple as that!

You know what the problem is, we over-complicate the simplest things in this world. Number one being Emotions! 

Now take a step back, close eyes, and be thankful that you are able to feel what you feel for it is good.

Every tear of pain is good, you’ll then value those things that bring joy to you.
Every moment you face alone is good, you’ll then value being surrounded by loved ones.
Every betrayal is good (only once don’t let it happen to you again and again, or else you’re basically stupid), you’ll then value each expression of love.
Every downfall in life is good, you’ll then value picking yourself up, and pushing all efforts to its extreme.

‘The sun does not stop shining when its rays are blocked by the clouds’

Then why should you let a hurdle stop you from running the extra mile?

Respect Yourself, Appreciate Others, Love Life and be Thankful to God!